She was apprehensive about me having a woman so she asked for time to consider doing this with a man. To my mind, a man who is that focused on the size of other men's penises really doesn't qualify as all that straight. I am average looks but a bit on the small side. About a year ago I finally resolved MY issues with her having other lovers and our relationship and intimacy has blossomed beyond my greatest expectations. I am just finishing reading you latest book. That indeed is a real threat to society and so it stigmatizes any legal legitimate action that it perceives a threat to it's tradition.
Specifically, seeing another man or multiple men bedding a desirable woman may stimulate sperm competition.
Feeling unloved because you had multiple men in or your husband wanted to have multiple men in you, means you equate love and sex as one entity. After he left town he sent me an email in which he described an intimate one on one encounter with my wife. Do YOU get to define other folks relationships? My wife has had sex with many other men during our 28 year marriage. So, you are saying that the variety of preferences found in our culture that fall outside your level of understanding equates to mental illness? Some of these men talked about treating the wife as a whore, as a piece of meat, and "taking her down a peg.